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Asked by Jdocto43 {88}
6/16/2011 2:13:12 PM In class today we had a jury charge speed test at 160 wpm. Well, my paper did not roll out right during the test and ended up falling to the floor. I was doing so good during the test I didn't want to stop so I just closed my eyes and hoped that it did not distract others. After the test one girl says something in the way of...thank you, thank you for letting your paper roll on the floor, great now I did not get the test, or something like that. I don't know about you guys but I don't know how I was supposed to fix that problem during the test. To me it would be more distracting if someone was trying to fix the paper or just stopped writing all together. I really am in awe that someone could blame me for not doing well on a test. What does everyone think? |
Answered by Melvin {451} 6/16/2011 3:59:29 PM | [5 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
![]() | I have a feeling I'll be in the minority on my view. I say "Man Up!" If you were able to continue writing, I commend you for making a conscious decision to do that while you're trying to navigate a test. This is what the real world of reporting requires at times; stuff happens. It isn't your responsibility to "hold somebody else's hand" so that they can complete the test. If something like that happened during a depo, you'd keep writing and try to catch a pause or interrupt briefly while you fixed your paper. At some point we all need to grow a spine and take a few lumps. It's good preparation for that other student. She/he should be saying to herself that she won't let herself freak out if that were to happen again. Who knows, things like that can happen during the CSR exam. So get ready now! There's no crying in court reporting! J/K |
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That is exactly how I feel. I have an assistant job at a federal court house and from what I have seen so far people come in and out all of the time and there are all kinds of interruptions. If someone can't handle a little paper on the floor they may want to re-think this career. I do feel bad for having messed someone up or distracting them but she could have said something to me nice in a nice way rather than yelling at me like I am a child. It is not like I was trying to sabotage her or anything like that. Like you said, stuff happens, “man up”. Thank you for respoding I was starting to wonder if maybe I was in the wrong :) - Jdocto43 6/16/2011 6:32:54 PM | FlagHi Jdocto. I just posted something you may find encouraging. Lol, it's a bit long, but check it out. Good luck.Elizabeth - ecurry 6/18/2011 8:26:50 AM | FlagI love There's no crying in court reporting!I saw several situations like this unfold when I was in school. Don't think it's only you.Once a girl's paper fell to the floor during a test. She kept writing. Afterwards no one was mean, but someone suggesting that they had seen someone in a similiar situation (there was something broken on her tray if I remember) not use a tray and let her paper fall to the floor on purpose. If you pull out enough and get some folds going before you start writing, it's no more distracting than anyone else's tray.Another time right after a test a girl snapped at another girl for waving her arms during the test. I was sitting behind both of them, and I hadn't seen anything. It was out of line, just like the girl who said something to you.One of the skills required to graduate court reporting school is the ability to not get beaten down by other people's nonsense.If she really was close, she'll get one of the next tests. If not, she wasn't ready to move up anyway. - jackiesnote 6/18/2011 1:07:26 PM | FlagYup. Wanna wager which girl in these scenarios will have a nice career a few years down the road and which one won't? I hope any student reading these comments who recognizes herself -- and I say herself because we know girls fall prey more often to being drama queen behavior than guys ;) -- will decide to knock it off and get on with the business of learning to shake it off, which is so very important in this job. And despite my nom de pleum (phonetic sp), I am not a guy, I'm female, so I can make these statements! - Melvin 6/18/2011 11:07:56 AM | Flagoops. typo. fall prey more often to drama queen behavior.Don't send me letters, yuk, yuk. - Melvin 6/18/2011 11:13:57 AM | Flag35+ years ago court reporting school was STRESS. Forgive, but keep one eye on those sensitive types ... you'll be seeing a lot of lawyers and judges like that. This ain't a job for sissies. - LoriByrdBuckner 6/20/2011 4:59:05 PM | Flag |
6/16/2011 10:22:09 PM | [1 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I agree that student should "man up," as well. I was at a depo a few months back, and I literally had an attorney pull a bagel out of a brown paper bag and start munching on it with his mouth open the whole time. As if that were not bad enough, every time he would take a bite, he would put the bagel BACK INTO the brown paper bag only to dig right back into the bag for the next bite. Strange noisy things happen all the time during depos. That other student should have understood that you probably felt bad enough as it was. Don't worry about it. As the saying goes, things happen. :) |
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That's hilarious!!! - jeanese 6/18/2011 1:11:16 AM | FlagLOL, LOL, LOL. Just a typical day for me at a depo, too. - pinksteno 6/18/2011 8:22:27 PM | FlagIt's definitely funny after the fact. I laugh and giggle every time I think about it. Believe me, it wasn't funny when it was happening! Sheesh...he must have been starving! ;) - CaliforniaScribe 6/18/2011 11:37:58 PM | FlagI was more laughing because of how you described it! Too funny! Didn't mean to make light of your having to work through that distraction. I've glared at many an atty as they answer the phone, won't shut off their phones and gadgets which give off continuous *dings!* throughout the duration of the depo (OMG! I also had the hungriest videographer I've ever witnessed the other day! - almost forgot about that) among many, many other distractions ~ no one even notices my icy stares... lol! So I just shake my head and laugh! ;). - jeanese 6/19/2011 12:19:56 AM | FlagOh, no, I was sure you weren't making light of it. :) Just curious, what was your videographer munching on?? Now that I think of it, if Counsel decided to bring a brown paper bag to a depo. he probably should have at least had some cheap booze in there. Now that would have been funny before, during, and after!! :) - CaliforniaScribe 6/19/2011 12:25:28 AM | FlagOkay. Good. What wasn't he munching on, is the question? This guy just ate constantly - it was so distracting. I remember thinking, Is he really THAT hungry. I can see not having time to eat, so you snack on something real quick ~ but the whole time? Ay, yi, yi! - jeanese 6/19/2011 12:36:10 AM | FlagYou should have given him the icy stare....on camera. ;) - CaliforniaScribe 6/19/2011 10:22:27 PM | FlagAt least he was munching on food. This attorney (luckily not the one that hired me) was chewing on his fingernails like it was his last meal and if that wasn't disgusting enough he was making a little pile of them on the floor -- a floor I might mention wasn't his! GROSS... - LKBragg 6/20/2011 5:56:12 PM | Flag |
Answered by pinksteno {1009} 6/18/2011 8:21:07 PM | [1 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
What a blast from the past for me. I remember 160 being physically tough to surpass. My brain was ready but my hands, particularly my wrists, were not. Talk about feeling that burn. I will admit that I did cry, but it was in the privacy of my home. With continuous practice, and after passing three tests at 160, I sailed straight through to 225. Students insulting each other after a speed test is nothing new, my friend. There are people who will never hold a mirror up to themselves to see who is really to blame for their problems. Don't lose your sweetness Jdocto43. True, you have to develop a thick skin, and you will, but this world could use a few more kind people. I wish you the best of luck, and welcome to the profession.
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6/18/2011 1:18:35 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I actually think you did the right thing -- more true to real life ~ *When distractions happen, just keep right on rollin'* And I agree with the other posters in that you've (hopefully) demonstrated to this frustrated classmate that, *Hey, stuff happens!* Perhaps this person was just looking for an out ~ no moment in reporting (student or professional) is ever PERFECT or without distraction. Perhaps, (in a PERFECT world) this fellow student would have thanked you for testing his/her distraction capacity! lol! ;). |
Answered by Jdocto43 {88} 6/18/2011 7:25:04 PM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
Thank you so much everyone for your comments! I really love this profession because of how supportive and encouraging everyone in it is. It is so united it feels like one big happy family. Just wanted to make sure I had some support for being human ;) |
Answered by Jdocto43 {88} 6/18/2011 8:59:16 PM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
Thanks Pinksteno, you are so kind! |
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6/20/2011 7:33:42 PM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I agree with everyone who's responded. I also think she was just looking for an excuse, and you were it! I worked part time as a CR instructor for many years, so I heard every & any excuse you can possibly imagine for one not "getting" a take. Believe me, most likely she wouldn't have passed it anyway :-) |
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http://www.cheapandsleazy.net 6/21/2011 3:35:15 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I have to agree with what everyone has said here: That other student should man up! A few years back, I was in a speedbuilding class, taking a test. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw the assistant instructor pick up a rather large dictionary. He raised this dictionary over his head, and let if fall to the floor! As you might guess, there were a few unhappy students, but having seen what he was doing, I kept writing (and the instructor kept dictating) ... and the instructor later explained that they did that on purpose -- so that the students wouldn't expect a real-world deposition to be noise-free. My state's immediate past president told a rather amusing story about a state exam. Seems the hotel the reserved for the state exam had a few, shall we say, acoustic problems ... and the room itself was right next to a rather busy kitchen. So. The test proceeds (that whole "silk purse/sow's ear" thing), and shortly after the exam begins, a waiter comes out of the kitchen, carrying a stack of dishes at the same time that a busboy wheeling a cart full of dirty dishes was heading back into the kitchen ... and yes, the two met in the middle. The resulting crash caused *everyone* to fail the test that day. Long story short, tell your frienemy to lighten up a bit. Between the bagel in the rustling bag, the dropped dictionary, and the crash of all those dishes, a little rustling paper is nothing. Good luck to you .....
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Sounds exactly like taking a judgment debtor exam in the cafeteria of OC Superior. Anybody been there? You go in and find an open spot (right next to another group doing their judgment debtor exam), hope you have a plug at yours, and proceed to lip-read. Good times. - Melvin 6/21/2011 10:23:54 AM | FlagOh my gosh! I can not believe the instructor did that. It is great they were able you show their students how the real world will be. At my school silence is golden and they would never do anything like that. I love the story about the dishes...too funny! Not funny that people did not pass the test because of that though! - Jdocto43 6/22/2011 2:59:37 PM | Flag |